Assumptions Make an ASS of U and ME: The Dragon’s Guide to Clarity and Understanding

🫏🐉 We’ve all heard the saying: “Assumptions make an ASS of U and ME.” It’s a lighthearted phrase, but it carries a serious truth.

When we make assumptions about others - about their motives, feelings, or intentions - we risk misunderstanding them entirely, damaging relationships, and missing out on the richness that comes from genuine connection.

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🐉 Think of a dragon who assumes another dragon’s roar is a threat without understanding its context. Perhaps that roar is actually a call for help, a greeting, or even an expression of joy. By making assumptions, the first dragon might react defensively, missing an opportunity for friendship, collaboration, or deeper understanding.

In our human lives, assumptions can create similar misunderstandings. We might assume a colleague who doesn’t speak up in meetings is disengaged when, in reality, they are deeply reflective and just need time to process their thoughts. Or we might assume a friend who cancels plans frequently doesn’t care, when in fact, they may be struggling with personal challenges we know nothing about.

🐲 When we rely on assumptions, we put ourselves in a position where we act on incomplete or even incorrect information. We close off possibilities and fail to see the full picture of someone’s reality. Instead, we should aim to replace assumptions with curiosity - asking questions, seeking clarification, and being genuinely open to understanding the perspectives of others.

❤️‍🔥🐉 In my own experience, I’ve found that many conflicts could have been avoided or resolved faster if I had taken a step back and asked for clarity instead of assuming I knew what was going on. It’s humbling to realize how often we misinterpret or project our own experiences onto others.

🔥 Let’s commit to being like the wise dragons who seek to understand before reacting. Let’s challenge our assumptions, ask questions, and approach each interaction with an open mind. Because when we do, we open ourselves up to deeper connections, greater empathy, and more meaningful relationships.

Think of a time when an assumption led you astray or caused a misunderstanding.

How did you address it, and what did you learn?

Share your story, and let’s remind each other of the value of clarity and open communication!